Being a mom is the best thing in the world
Motherhood is one of the most important jobs in the world. Being able to raise your child the way you want to raise them is so amazing. I finally feel like I found my purpose, to raise my son my life feels full of love and has a true meaning. I remember feeling lost and not knowing where I was going with my life and being a mother has really changed that for me.
The best part… knowing the true meaning to unconditional love. You really don’t know what real love is until your baby is born, and once you hear your baby cry, hold your baby the feelings rush to you like no other feeling in the world. That’s when I realized what love really was. It didn’t just stop there, every day I fell more in love with my son and with being a mother.
You can do as much research as you want, combine them all together and do your own thing. Raising your tiny little one into an amazing person is so rewarding. There is nothing in the entire world that is better than getting a hug and a kiss from your sweet toddler. One of my favorite things about being a mom is knowing all of the things I have taught him and watching him use his knowledge. I love when I’m feeling down and have someone to cuddle. I love watching childhood through his eyes as if I’m living it for myself all over again. There are so many feelings you will never be able to put into real words because only other moms know those feelings. It is a forever special bond that’s unbreakable.
Sometimes being a mom is so hard.
Parenting is so hard, we never know all of the answers, we don’t always know what we’re doing and that’s okay.
Some days I’m sure you want to just lock yourself in the bathroom to get even a 5 minute break, I’ve been there.
Some days you might yell.
Some days you might just want to cry.
Some days you might just want to lay in bed a little longer.
Sit on the couch a little longer.
Watch your favorite tv show a little longer.
We’ve all been there. AND IT’S HARD! The expectations of a mom in 2021 are pretty unrealistic, social media really makes it so much harder too. So many women that may not have kids, or don’t remember what it’s like to have kids are always saying “make time for yourself FIRST!” Which is hard to do! I only have one child right now… a wild, hyper, madly cute 2 year old toddler and MAN, he needs A LOT! Of course this isn’t exactly what I imagined when I was pregnant, I thought I’d have a lot more help! I am not saying I don’t have enough, I just mean…. I really didn’t know how exhausting taking care of a toddler as a SAHM would be. Some days I imagine the breaks I’d get if I was working a regular job, sometimes I imagine having FRIENDS at that job, adult conversations… any conversations at all. A lot of the time my fiance gets off of work and he’s too tired to help, too tired to carry a conversation. It gets lonely. If I really start to think about it, I have nothing really to talk about except my toddler “Carter did this today..and this and this” that’s about as interesting as my life gets! Someone’s gotta be reading this thinking the same, right? I’m not alone! lol. Obviously I’m starting to rant, but yeah, that’s how I think some days as a stay at home lonely momma. The days are long, but the years are short, don’t forget to cherish every single moment with your little ones…
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